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Divorce Decision Clarity™ – Upgrades & Support Options

You’ve now completed the Divorce Decision Roadmap™ and you’ve seen how The Decoding Grid™ can clear the fog of indecision and give you clarity.

You may even have started the DIY worksheet — and if so, congratulations on taking action.

And here’s the reality: simple doesn’t always mean easy.

The DIY Worksheet gives you the big steps, and as you saw in the case studies, there are many nuances, hidden blind spots, and emotional hurdles that can get in the way.

That’s why I’ve created different levels of support. Each one is designed to help you get the result easier, faster, and with greater certainty — depending on the kind of guidance you want.

Below, you’ll see 3 options: from continuing DIY with more powerful tools, to walking the path with me beside you, to letting me take the wheel so you can finally relax and know it’s handled.


Lost in the Forest of Indecision Analogy

Making the divorce decision can feel like you're lost in a dark forest—no clear path, just endless turns and dead ends.

The Divorce Decision Roadmap™ gives you a map and compass so you can find your way out.

You can walk that path alone—or you can choose different levels of support to make the journey easier, safer, and faster.


Questions?

If anything here isn’t clear, or if you have any questions, email me directly at [email protected]. I’ll be glad to help.

Living document: As I keep pursuing my mission of reaching and helping as many women as I can, I update it whenever formats, pricing, or availability evolve.

Note: All amounts are expressed in US dollars (USD).


Quick Overview of Your Upgrade & Support Options

 

🎁 Special Limited-Time Bonuses (Worth $200)

For a limited time, when you upgrade to any option, you’ll also receive these 2 powerful programs FREE:

Reconciling Divorce with Your Religious Beliefs or Moral Values

  • Align your decision with your faith and core values
  • AND gain new perspective on what serves the highest good for your kids.

How to Know When to Trust Your Gut

  • Learn how to align your Head and Gut for exponential clarity
  • Distinguish a true No from fear or discomfort
  • Gain confidence applying Step 3 of The Decoding Grid™ faster and with greater certainty.

These 2 programs are normally $97 each. You get both free as fast-action bonuses.

Why this unusually generous offer?

Because your primal brain wants to keep you stuck in the status quo, and I want to give you a powerful incentive to take action — instead of letting months or years slip by in limbo.

Right now, you’re at the apex of your motivation.

Based on my direct experience working with hundreds of women considering divorce, I know that if you don’t take action now, chances are slim you ever will.

And the risk is real: being pulled back into misery and wasted years — potentially leaving your kids with a legacy of dysfunction.

👉 These bonuses are included for a limited time. They may not always be available — but right now, they’re yours free when you upgrade.

Note: I realize this may feel like I’m putting some time pressure on you. The truth is, I am — but not to push you into something that isn’t right for you.

It’s because I care about you moving toward the happier life you deserve, instead of staying stuck for years longer than you need to.


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Detailed Descriptions

Option 1) Divorce Decision Clarity™ – DIY Accelerator

Analogy:

It’s like making the journey out of the forest with a fully equipped backpack — binoculars, flashlight, micromaps, and all the advanced tools you need.

You’re walking on your own, but you have everything necessary to navigate faster, easier, and with more confidence.

Why Choose This Program:

The DIY Accelerator is designed for women who want to apply The Decoding Grid™ on their own.

It’s especially helpful if your situation is more complex and you realize that it has many more nuances than what a short program like the Roadmap can cover.

👉 If you loved the clarity you experienced through seeing how The Decoding Grid™ works — but want deeper step-by-step guidance to apply it with confidence — then the DIY Accelerator is your best next step.

What You Get:

You’ll get access to a structured portal of comprehensive, step-by-step, on-demand video trainings.

They cover every detail and nuance of The Decoding Grid™, so you can move through the process with confidence and finally reach a decision you feel good about.

👉 It also includes all the tools, templates, and software you need, so you don’t have to reinvent the wheel.

Here’s a sneak peek at a part of Week 1, which shows you the nuances broken down into small, doable steps.

With this structure, you’ll always know exactly where you stand and what to do next — because everything is guided with short, easy-to-follow videos.

Week 1: Value Mapping

  • Identify the 20–30 values that define your ideal relationship — with the clarity most people never reach on their own.
  • Spot hidden needs or Deal Breakers that could change everything about your decision.
  • Learn how to phrase values so they’re specific, distinct, and testable — avoiding confusion later.

Week 2: Categorized Ranking

  • Master the nuances of the pairwise comparison method so your rankings don’t shift endlessly.
  • Know exactly what troubleshooting process to use if you get stuck between 2 values.
  • Separate the true Essentials from the “nice-to-haves,” and confirm which Deal Breakers can never be overlooked.

Week 3: Relationship Decoding

  • See your relationship revealed in a clear, visual Grid with symbols and colors that make the truth undeniable.
  • Use a precise step-by-step strategy to pinpoint the exact changes required to save your relationship.
  • Learn how to handle nuanced results and questions like, “Is it reasonable to expect changes?”

Week 4: Bonus — Integration & Next Steps

  • Review key research on the effects on kids of staying in an unfulfilling relationship vs. divorcing.
  • Explore how The Decoding Grid™ logic can be applied to assess all your options and make a decision with confidence.

Duration & Access:

  • Access for 8 weeks. The program is designed to bring clarity in 3 weeks, with week 4 as bonus content.
  • I provide 8 weeks of access — more than double the time you need — so you can move at your own pace without feeling rushed.
  • Why not lifetime? Because unlimited access only invites procrastination. Your primal brain will always try to keep you in the status quo by saying, “I’ll do it later.”
  • With a clear timeframe, your brain knows it’s time to act — and that’s how you actually get results instead of staying stuck.

Outcome:

By the end of the program, you’ll emerge with clarity, certainty, and peace of mind.

No more spinning in circles or fearing you’ll make the wrong move.

Instead, you’ll finally know — with your Head, Heart, and Gut fully aligned — whether to stay or go.

And with that answer, you’ll reclaim your time, energy, and future—no longer stuck in limbo, but free to move toward the happier life you deserve.

Investment:

$297.

Risk-free: Includes a Calm 7-Day Money-Back Guarantee.

If it’s not a fit, get a full refund—and keep the bonuses.

I offer this in good faith; please act with integrity so I can keep doing this for others.

That way, you can dip your toe in risk-free, knowing your investment is fully protected.

How to Enroll:

Click here to get instant access to the DIY Accelerator and get your 2 bonuses worth $200

 


Option 2) Divorce Decision Clarity™ – Done-With-You Program

Analogy:

It’s like having a calm, steady guide walking right beside you every step of the way.

I shine the light ahead, point out the pitfalls, and I make sure you stay on the safest, most efficient path — so you never feel alone or risk taking a wrong turn.

Why Choose This Program:

The Done-With-You program is designed for women who don’t want to take the journey alone and want to play it safe.

Even with the clarity of the Roadmap and the tools of the DIY Accelerator, it’s easy to get off track, miss a nuance, or make small mistakes that quietly snowball into the wrong conclusion.

👉 If you want 1-on-1 Zoom coaching with me, personalized feedback on every step, and the accountability to stay on track and finish strong — the Done-With-You Program is your best next step.

What You Get:

  • Everything in the DIY Accelerator
  • Kickoff Zoom 1-on-1 Session to tailor the plan to your situation
  • Weekly written submissions reviewed with my targeted video feedback — as many rounds as you need for each step until your work is greenlit to move forward
  • Unlimited email support
  • Progression is work-based: submit your work to be greenlit for the next step
  • Final Review Zoom 1-on-1 Session to validate your Grid, walk you through nuances, and plan next steps

Duration & Access:

  • Access for 8 weeks. The program is designed to bring clarity in 3 weeks, with week 4 as bonus content.
  • I provide 8 weeks of access — more than double the time you need — so you can move at your own pace without feeling rushed.
  • Why not lifetime? Because unlimited access only invites procrastination. Your primal brain will always try to keep you in the status quo by saying, “I’ll do it later.”
  • With a clear timeframe, your brain knows it’s time to act — and that’s how you actually get results instead of staying stuck.

Outcome:

  • By the end of the program, you’ll have clarity and certainty at every step, with each stage reviewed and validated by me.
  • You’ll walk away knowing your decision is accurate and trustworthy — with your Head, Heart, and Gut fully aligned, and with the peace of mind that comes from personalized feedback, expert guidance, and never having to second-guess yourself.

Investment:

6 monthly payments of $197 OR pay in full $997 (save $200).

How to Enroll:

Click here to start your application and book your 30-minute Clarity Consult with me

The purpose of this Clarity Consult is to:

  • Understand your unique situation and confirm if this program is the right fit.
  • Answer any lingering questions so you feel fully confident.
  • Guide you through the final steps of enrolling.

👉 Please book only if you are prepared to make a clear Yes or No decision on the call — and if it’s a Yes, to process your investment and schedule your first 1-on-1 session.

The reason I ask you to show up ready to make a decision is twofold:

First, normally, if you’re booking this call, it’s because you already believe The Decoding Grid™ — and my direct support — can help you.

Second, if you leave the door open with “I need to think about it,” that’s usually just the primal brain pulling you back into the status quo — the very trap that’s kept you stuck this long.

This call is your chance to break that pattern and move forward with clarity.

 


Option 3) Divorce Decision Clarity™ – Done-For-You Private Coaching

Analogy:

I come pick you up in an SUV. You relax in the back seat while I drive you safely and quickly out of the forest — minimum time, minimum effort, extra comfort.

Why Choose This Program:

The Done-For-You Program is designed for women who want zero risk of mistakes and the confidence of having everything handled for them.

It’s also for those who want results with minimal effort and in the shortest possible time.

This program uniquely includes an additional support session within 60 days after your Decoding Grid is complete.

This gives you expert guidance not only in reaching clarity, but also in navigating the first steps after your decision.

👉 If you want clarity delivered in the fastest, easiest way — with me doing the heavy lifting and guiding your next steps — the Done-For-You Private Coaching is your best next step.

What You Get:

  • 2–3 private coaching Zoom sessions, about 2 hours each, where I do the heavy lifting
  • Your Decoding Grid built and validated together
  • 1 extra follow-up support session (up to 2 hours) within 60 days of the last session

Duration:

  • Depending on scheduling and availability, you could reach clarity within the next 7–14 days.

Outcome:

I’ll guide you through all the steps of The Decoding Grid™ quickly and effectively — it usually takes only 2 sessions, and it has never taken me more than 3 sessions with any client.

You’ll walk away with certainty and peace of mind — making your decision with every nuance handled, and without the stress or second-guessing of trying to do it alone.

Investment:

$2500.

This option is not about how many hours we spend together or the number of sessions.

It’s about the value of clarity in one of the biggest choices you’ll ever make — a decision that will change how you live the rest of your life.

Note: This is a premium investment option available on a limited basis because it requires the most direct involvement of my time. Availability depends on my current schedule.

(Payment plan may be available upon request.)

How to Enroll:

Click here to start your application and book your 30-minute Clarity Consult with me

The purpose of this Clarity Consult is to:

  • Understand your unique situation and confirm if this program is the right fit.
  • Answer any lingering questions so you feel fully confident.
  • Guide you through the final steps of enrolling.

👉 Please book only if you are prepared to make a clear Yes or No decision on the call — and if it’s a Yes, to process your investment and schedule your first 1-on-1 session.

The reason I ask you to show up ready to make a decision is twofold:

First, normally, if you’re booking this call, it’s because you already believe The Decoding Grid™ — and my direct support — can help you.

Second, if you leave the door open with “I need to think about it,” that’s usually just the primal brain pulling you back into the status quo — the very trap that’s kept you stuck this long.

This call is your chance to break that pattern and move forward with clarity.

 


Which Option Is Right For You?

If you already feel clear, then choose the path that best matches your needs:

If you’re not sure yet which option fits you best, the most important thing is this: don’t stop here. Your primal brain wants to drag you back into indecision.

The safest next step is to begin with the DIY Accelerator.

With the 7-day money-back guarantee, you can dip your toe in, explore the full set of tools and trainings, and move forward all risk-free.

And you’ll still keep both valuable bonuses as my gift, no matter what.

That way, you don’t lose momentum at the very moment you’re most motivated, and you don’t risk sliding back into indecision.

Take action today — whichever path you choose — and give yourself the clarity, certainty, and peace of mind to finally move forward into the happier life you deserve.