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Get Clarity and Certainty About Whether to Divorce or Not in 30 Days or Less

 Finally experience inner peace and move toward a happier life

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Many women considering divorce are stuck in indecision because they're afraid of making a mistake they’ll regret

How many of these can you relate to?

  • Your mind keeps going back and forth (one day, you think one answer, but the next, you feel the exact opposite).
  • You think about it several times a day (or even all day long).
  • You often feel stressed and/or anxious.
  • You worry about the impact of your decision on your kids.
  • You have trouble sleeping properly and/or feel tired almost all the time.
  • You feel fake/inauthentic and that you have to put a mask on.
  • You have a hard time planning for the future.
  • You keep weighing the pros and cons and second-guessing yourself.
  • You have a hard time being fully present with your kids.
  • You feel you’re just going through the motions, surviving instead of thriving.

With Clarity comes Certainty—and Certainty gives you Power

You deserve to live a happy life

 
 

Clarity & Certainty

Determine with Certainty whether you can fix your marriage or should move on. Explain your decision easily to yourself and others. 

 

Relief & Inner Peace

Feel deep within you, with your Head, Heart, and Gut aligned, that you are doing the right thing for yourself and your kids.

Control & Resolve

Gain control and finally move toward a happier life and future with confidence.

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I get it—Deciding whether to divorce is one of the hardest decisions you will ever make

I know you want a happier life, knowing your kids will be OK.  And in order to do that, you need to make the Right Decision regarding your marriage.

The problem is you don’t have a proven process to make it with Certainty, and the costs are very high if you get it wrong.

That’s why you are frozen in the status quo, feeling trapped and with your life on hold while precious years go by.

I know what it feels like because I was stuck in indecision for 5 grueling years (out of a 10-year-long relationship).

Thankfully, I finally found a revolutionary process to get absolute Clarity and Certainty. 

I believe you can and deserve to live a happier life.

That's why I've made it my Life Mission to share this process with the world, starting with women considering divorce.

 
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23+

Years in the Field of Coaching & Personal Development

Master of Science in Psychology from Yale University

3

Years Helping Women Considering Divorce

Why I can help you even if I’m a man

  • The problem you’re facing right now is indecision, and the pain of indecision is not gender-specific.
  • I experienced the pain of indecision personally to the highest degree.
  • While divorce is a decision women face once (or just a few times) in their lives, my work has allowed me to “experience” it numerous times.
  • I have delved into the nuts and bolts of divorce with hundreds of women regarding their unhappy relationships and their struggle with that decision.
  • This gives me an unparalleled perspective, depth of understanding, and expertise.
  • I have developed a revolutionary clarity and decision-making process (The Decoding GridTM) specifically tailored to helping women make the divorce decision.

“I have finally come to a place of peace about my decision.”

– Suzanne

“I was initially hesitant to make the investment, but (...) I decided to take a leap of faith.

The process was profound! The work was hard, but I was committed to getting unstuck.

As Mike walked me through step by step, the pieces came together beautifully. 

I have finally come to a place of peace about my decision.”

– Suzanne
 

“This experience was life changing.

I have felt stuck for over a year and it was starting to impact my health and other areas of my life. 

After working through the program and having Mike so eloquently bring the answers to the surface, I felt lighter, freer and empowered.

I am so grateful I found this!”

– Empowered
 

“It was exactly what I needed to get through what felt like an overwhelmingly complex decision-making process that was life-depleting.

I feel light, relieved and like I have my life back because I have total clarity about my values for an ideal partner and life options.

Mike Fink is genuine, respectful, positive, confident, assuring, kind AND very knowledgeable in this area.

– Jane
 

Here is what makes me UNIQUE

Forget everything you know about traditional solutions.

This isn't marriage counseling, therapy, or run-of-the-mill coaching. We're not here to “try one last time” or beg for compromise.

My Decoding GridTM process is the ONLY one that gives you the:

1. RIGHT RESEARCH
Scientifically Unlocks the Root Cause of Being Stuck in Limbo

  • This process is backed by neuroscience. It uniquely addresses the biological and psychological reasons of your indecision. It recognizes and works with your brain's survival mechanism that keeps you frozen in the status quo.
  • It helps you break free from this paralysis, empowering you to move forward with clarity and confidence, even when facing deeply ingrained fears and uncertainties.

2. RIGHT ROUTINE
Systematic and Structured Step-by-Step Approach

  • You already have the elements within you to make the Right Decision—you just don't know how to make sense of them. My process organizes them in a sequence that all parts of your brain understand and brings you Certainty.
  • Like solving a Rubik’s Cube, following a specific sequence or algorithm leads to the right decision. Every. Single. Time.

3. RIGHT RESOLVE
Comprehensive Decision Alignment

  • It is not just about knowing what to do; my process ensures Decision Harmony, meaning your decision aligns with your Head (logic), Heart (emotions), and Gut (intuition).
  • This holistic approach guarantees that it all feels right on every level, leading you to unshakeable confidence and inner peace.
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That's what makes it possible for you to make the Right Decision with Clarity and Certainty, and start moving towards a happier life in the next 30 days or less.

Here's how it works

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  • We chat about your specific situation, struggles, and goals.
  • I walk you through the different ways I can help you.
 
 
 

Make the Right Decision

  • The Decoding GridTM Revolutionary Process brings you Clarity and Certainty.
  • You know exactly what to do in 30 days or less.

Enjoy a Happy Life

  • You experience inner peace and can explain your decision to yourself and others.
  • You take the next steps toward a better future for yourself and your kids, exactly when you’re ready and want to.
 
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3 ways to transform your life in 30 days or less.

“Get Absolute Clarity”
VIP 1:1 Coaching

Done-For-You

  • Simply show up for our sessions and I do all the heavy lifting to get you to absolute Clarity and Certainty.
  • We'll have 4 sessions of about 2.5 hours each on Zoom Video (3 for the Steps of The Decoding GridTM process + 1 session for extra support & guidance).
  • The reveal of your answer will be clearly documented, so you can confidently move toward a happier life with inner peace.
 
 

“Get Absolute Clarity”
4-Week Program
Done-With-You

  • You get access to extensive on-demand videos guiding you through each step of my revolutionary Decoding GridTM process.
  • I personally review and provide feedback on your weekly progress for each step through videos I'll record for you.
  • You get unlimited email support during the program directly from me.
  • We bookend your transformation with two 1:1 sessions: a Kickoff Call and a Final Review Call on Zoom Video.
  • You have 6 weeks of access to all of the above to give you margin and comfort.
 

“Get Absolute Clarity”
4-Week Program
Do-It-Yourself

  • You get access to extensive on-demand videos guiding you through each step of my revolutionary Decoding GridTM process.
  • As you follow each step, the reveal of your answer will be clearly documented, so you can confidently move toward a happier life with inner peace.
  • You have 6 weeks of access to all of the above to give you margin and comfort.
 
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FAQ’s

A decision delayed
is a life on hold

Keeping “thinking about it” without a proven process is taking the chance to make the wrong decision impulsively, and have a lifetime of regrets. Or keeping your life and happiness on hold forever.

Together, we’ll get you to Clarity and Certainty so you can make the Right Decision, gain control, and finally move toward the happier life you deserve to live 

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